Assisting With Family Chores
A mother is the most important person in a family. Every person needs her attention from cleanliness, giving directions, education, food, instilling discipline to managing all aspects including cleaning the compound. Mother is usually hard working with greatest responsibilities to support even their husbands with finances. As a result of such tremendous duties, children have the responsibility to help their mothers with family chores especially during weekends, holidays or at any moment they are instructed to do any duty. For example, children should be cleaning their rooms and study areas, watering flowers and plants, cleaning compound, dusting the house and furniture, help in hanging out the washed clothes among others. Therefore, helping mothers at home is our responsibilities as children besides making us stay fit and confident.
In most cases, when children stay beside mothers and listening to their instructions, they learn the art of doing activities. For example, cleaning itself is an art and requires skills. On the same note, allocating light duties to children at home makes them feel proud and confident as well as realizing that their existence in the family is of greater help. These children in time build high self-esteem since they contribute for the betterment of the family.
Secondly, helping mothers at home ensures positive buildup of relationships with the mother. In most cases, children take much time in schools. Therefore, helping mothers provides the best opportunity to bond with them. This is normally the best moment to share with mothers any information one feels as well as reassuring her that she is an important person. Helping the mother with such family chores is the best way of thanking her for all the good things that she has been doing to her kids. Thus, it creates the environment for bonding.
On a separate note, helping mothers at home is the perfect time of applying the practical skills gained in school. Mothers sometimes get ill and stay away from home. In such circumstances, most fathers do the cooking, doing all the shopping and planning meals for the day. However, the general cleaning of the house such as ironing, washing up, cleaning rooms entirely remains for the teens. Ironing as chores, at home is important. As a home economics student, this is the time to apply the learned skills at school besides cooking light dishes for the family, doing the shopping as well as gardening. Regarding the application of the skills learned in school, mother one time demanded that I take the responsibility of ensuring that the fridge at home is well kept and all the food items in it were arranged as required. However, she never knew that it was part of the cookery lessons that is done at school. These chores enable improved my technical skills, especially management of the fridge, monitoring the food items concerning their conditions among others. Therefore, applying different skills learned at school have been of greater benefit to the mother. I recall one time when my mom was surprised to have saved a lot of money on food expenditure. She realized that she no longer spend much due to the best ways I use to preserve the food items at home. I was motivated to assist mother most of the time at home as I realize that is also a source of learning how to do activities.
Finally, helping mother at home is a responsibility that I have to undertake. This is the moment I say “thank you” to my mother who has helped me in many ways. Ensuring that the house is in order is my priority besides being a way of getting rid of my boredom. These little chores that I have been doing at home have taught me the art of persistence, being responsible besides improving my practical skills especially on cleaning, food preservation, and management.